Sadly, their idea of a good time was watching television at my house while eating all of my food.If I hadn’t started out dating white men then I may have assumed those home visits and free-for-alls were the norm.For instance, the black men I met immediately requested visits to my place.

We discussed a variety of topics and he seemed genuinely interested in what I had to say (a rare find in the dating pool of the late ’90s).

We didn’t date long, considering we were young and in school, but he set the precedent for all of my interracial relationships.

Former TV producer and current Entertainment journalist for local and national publications covering nightlife, music, and fashion, Victoria has a passion for the written word.

A small town girl livin’ it up in Miami running her own Marketing & PR company - ITM Media - she is heavily involved in the media industry.

I grew up in a single-parent household where husband and wife roles were non-existent.

Thankfully it didn’t matter because white men showed me what I needed to know about love, commitment, and romance.

When she’s not writing about sex and dating for Love Sujeiry, scoping out new artists for Just Breezies, or covering Miami’s nightlife for her own lifestyle site, Vique In The Mix, she’s being a “Momager” to her overly active son.

She believes that with love and kindness anything is possible.

I’m not saying this applies to all white men, but that has been my experience. MORE: Sex on the First Date: Do Men Think You’re a Slut? There are Latinos who are dry, lack manners and rarely show affection.

There are white guys who will wine and dine a woman. However, in the battle between dating los Latinos versus the white boys, Latinos take the win.

Thinkstock I dated mostly white men in my younger years.